The faculty of making stupid discoveries by accident. The name of my first Fantasy Football Team. Neither of which have anything to do with this blog. I just like the word. Deal with it !!!!!!
Under the “B”
Thursday afternoon is BINGO time for the Seniors. Sue came up with the plan to give us something to do.
At 1:00 pm I take mom and dad over to Sue’s to join Ivy and Grace in a lively couple of games of BINGO. Sue and I take turns being the caller while the other ensures that no one misses any numbers that are called. We also take turns hitting the local dollar stores, buying up little trinkets and the like to hand out as prizes. To date mom and dad have managed to amass quite a little collection of bobble head birds, little animal knick knacks and some cute voltive cande holders. I know, I know, it’s just more stuff, but they all seem to enjoy winning it, so what the heck – no one is getting hurt and it’s all in fun.
We start the afternoon with coffee, tea and treats. Grace is a wonderful baker and today we had awesome Lemon Squares. Sometimes she makes cookies that are just like my Gramma used to make. Ginger Snaps, Oatmeal Coconut, Chocolate Chip and to-die-for shortbread, which she doesn’t just bake at Christmas. Other times, Sue and Ivy will bake a cake in the morning and we will have that. I am the “lazy” one – I stop at the bakery. (not really lazy, just time challenged for the most part).
Then it is time to play BINGO. It is actually quite fun because you never know what is going to come out of it. Today, not paying attention, mom stuck her hand into her coffee mug thinking it was the little dish with her Bingo markers in it.
Ivy’s sense of humour comes through when she continually asks to trade numbers that are called with someone who has said number and she doesn’t. She also likes to munch on the chocolate covered almonds Sue sets out, but, Ivy doesn’t like the almonds only the chocolate covering, so sometimes instead of a Bingo marker on her card there is a naked almond sitting in its place.
Mom can get a little indignant when her numbers are not called. She also has a problem hearing somethings and many times she will say, “I thought you said “D” ” when under the B or G are called. It would be too difficult to try and get her to understand that (a) there is no D in BINGO and (b) the numbers are static to the letters .
We usually play 5 – 6 games. The first couple are single lines, the next two games, 2 lines are needed to win and the last game is always a full card game. Dad likes to play 2 cards at a time. Today he called BINGO during the 2 line game…Ummm Dad – the two lines have to be on the same card!!!!
Grace and Dad are usually fairly quiet, checking their numbers as we go along. However, all 4 of them can get quite verbal when their numbers are not being called LOL.
Getting out and doing activities seems to be helping my frustration levels immensely. I still get frustrated with both of them but when we are out and doing something it is much easier to just go with the flow. They are having fun, not losing things and most of all the interaction with others keeps them from becoming bored and restless.
And there is a big bonus to doing activities. People who are afflicted with Alzheimers lose their ability to remember things, especially short term memory. Their brains become confused, words get lost, thoughts unfinished. Mom and Ivy are the ones that have been diagnosed for the longest. Mom, Ivy and dad have major problems with short term memory loss and things are gone from their minds almost immediately. However, something pretty amazing happened this morning.
Sue got to Ivy’s house at her usual time and the first thing Ivy asked her was if they were going Bowling today. This may seem like a small thing, but in the world of Dementia, this was awesome. It was the first time that Ivy had recalled something from the day before ON HER OWN!!!!!
Now, none of us are naive enough to think that there is some miraculous turnaround happening to Ivy. Rather, it would seem that for whatever reason Ivy’s brain retained the Bowling activity, recalled it a day later and actually let Ivy articulate the words. In the grand scheme of things, this may never occur again but for today at least there was a short glimmer of recognition for Ivy and it was a good thing.
We are going to continue BINGO on Thursday afternoons as it is a fun time for all. We are also going to add Bowling to our activity list, however that won’t be weekly, more like every 2 or 3 weeks. Next week, we are going to try a Craft afternoon – I picked up canvas’s, paints and brushes at the Buck Store and we are going to see who the next Piccasso or Da Vinci will be. If it is mom or dad I know the artistic gene was not passed on to me – at best my stick people drawings would send a normally sane person running to the nearest “loonie bin” to have me commited. Rorshak has nothing on me!!!!!!!
Hope your day was as fun as ours.