The faculty of making stupid discoveries by accident. The name of my first Fantasy Football Team. Neither of which have anything to do with this blog. I just like the word. Deal with it !!!!!!
Sidebar – Too funny to skip!
Tonight I was going to write about Day 4 and the girl in the fishnet stockings but I am going to delay that post for a day. Something hilarious happened today and since we can all use a laugh once in a while I am going to tell the story.
I haven’t written about BINGO and Bowling lately because there really hasn’t been anything earth shattering funny to talk about but that changed today.
We went bowling today – The Senior Bowling Brigade, Sue, Craig and I. We haven’t been for a while and it was time to get out and do something, and the bowling alley is air conditioned. A good place to spend an afternoon on a muggy, overcast, rainy day.
Everything was going great – we had 2 teams. Ivy, Grace and Mom were one team. Craig, Dad and I were the second team. Sue didn’t feel like bowling so she was our cheerleader today!
Our first game went by uneventfully. However, in the second game on one of Ivy’s turns to bowl, she gets up, throws the ball and knocks over two pins. We tell her she has another turn. She turns around and starts walking toward the pins. At that exact moment in time I was about to hurl the ball in my lane and I had to stop. Ivy was on her way down the lane to knock over the pins LOL. I started to laugh, turned around and looked at Sue who was also starting to laugh hysterically. That got me going too – I could barely bowl. She managed to get Ivy back and to pick up another ball but it was too late. I was laughing, Craig was laughing and Sue had tears rolling down her face.
But that wasn’t the kicker…
When you walk into the bowling alley you have to take off your shoes. There is a long carpet runner at the front door where everyone leaves their shoes. We were not the only ones in the alley today – there was a group of 5 other women who had come in just after us. We were leavingathe bowling alley and mom was complaining that her shoes weren’t fitting properly. I told her that I would fix them when we sat down for a coffee next door. We get our coffees and are sitting at the table – mom cannot get her shoes on. Well she has one on, but the right foot refuses to go into the show. We are all telling her that it is because she has sweat socks on in the middle of summer and she should be wearing lighter socks. Finally out of exasperation more than aanything I tell her to take the shoes off and put mine on. I will wear hers home. We switch shoes and I notice there are some pretty snazzy insoles in the shoes but as fast as I noticed it the thought was gone.
After coffee we went home, mom wearing my shoes and I hers. As I am getting out of the car I look down and realize that these are not mom’s shoes. They do look similar to moms but they are not hers!!! No wonder they didn’t fit her. I put my own shoes on and went rushing back to the bowling alley. As soon as I walked in the owner Gary says, Oh you got my message…Nope I hadn’t been home yet but I knew what he was calling about. LOL. Suffice to say that the remainder of my afternoon was spent tracking down the rightful owner of said shoes and delivering them to her door.
Later tonight at dinner Craig told me that he was glad he had been with us today because if he had not been and I had told him the story about the afternoon it still would have been funny but not nearly as much as seeing it for himself. The minute that we started talking about it both of us were in stitches.
Now, you may think we are cruel to be laughing at something that is clearly no fault of Ivy’s nor Mom’s. However, I have to say that when you live with and are a caregiver to anyone with any form of dementia you tend to see things in a different light and in this case we are dealing with Alzhiemer’s Disease. Mom, Dad and Ivy have all been diagnosed with the disease and sometimes you just have to laugh. In my case if I didn’t I would spend too much time crying and to be honest – life is too short for that. So, yes, we do tend to turn some “events” into more than they probably should be but, at the same time, it helps keep us sane in an otherwise insane situation. We are not laughing at the person per se, we are laughing at the situation.
My mother does some pretty strange things that I find to be very amusing. For instance, although she has a closet full of beautiful clothes she prefers to wear my fathers clothing. The t-shirts are not too bad however, when she is determined to wear his pants some funny things usually occur. Like, them falling down in the grocery store!!!! Yes, I know, not funny at the time but relating the story later to Sue had us both in tears.
Sometimes laughter truly is the best medicine!!!
I attend seminars conducted by the Alzhiemers Society on coping with and living with people who have dementia. Through these seminars I have not only met some really awesome people but I have also learned how to try and cope on a day to day basis with all the “quirks” of my loved ones. And somedays it is not easy, but I have learned one very important thing. If no one is getting hurt then it is not a big deal. And I try my damnedest to remember that. I don’t always score an “A” on that front but I do try and that is the main thing.
Sorry if you were counting on reading about the girl with fishnets (LOL Steve) but I thought we all needed a break from my vacation!
This is the Bowling Brigade: